By Hans Pieter Herman & Ira Siff

How to describe an unforgettable wedding day. It was the best of days. Only a few months ago we heard about the search for 5 same-sex couples to be married by the Mayor of Amsterdam during Gay Pride in Holland, as part of  I do. I amsterdam. We’re happy to say that we are one of the 5 couples that got selected!

It truly was an unbelievable experience. 560.000 People stood alongside the canals celebrating a sunshine filled day while we were on the wedding boat during canal pride with Job Cohen, Mayor of Amsterdam, joining us into the bonds of matrimony.
The organization did an amazing job in making the event very special for all of the 5 couples getting married.

In the end the whole I do I do team really succeeded in making it possible that our wedding felt individual and special to us as a couple. During our ceremony when Ira broke the glass according to Jewish tradition thousands of people cheered and it was a very emotional and heartfelt experience.

Luckily we did find shoes in time that made us feel secure on the boat and confident enough not having to be ambulanced by boat  to the hospital with pieces of glass in Ira’s foot. Pictures and comments were sent all over the world in newspaper articles and through TV correspondence in numerous countries. Hopefully it will give lot’s of governments that still do not value human rights a chance to reconsider their discriminatory policy about their tax paying citizens that just happened to be born gay.

We spent our 10 day honeymoon in Umbria, Italy and just yesterday we had to say goodbye since Ira left for New York to go home while Hans lives in Amsterdam and is about to leave for the Ukraine to work. Even now, when we do not even know when we will have the time or money to travel towards spending time with each other again, we do know that our now legally bound love will keep us together for ever.

About the authors
Hans Pieter Herman is a Dutch freelance opera and concert singer who lives in Amsterdam where he also teaches voice. Ira Siff is a New Yorker who directs opera, performs, teaches voice, writes about opera and is Weekly Commentator on the Metropolitan Opera Broadcast. Hans and Ira met in New York and fell in love in 2006. Beside their love for each other and each others cities they share a deep love for Italy where they will spend their honeymoon.

The New York Times’ article on I do. I amsterdam.

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